Being Too Specific Will Hurt You

2 min readMar 11, 2022

But Not In The Way You Think

Photo by Clem Onojeghuo on Unsplash

All my life, I have been told I am too picky. I am too picky when it comes to lovers and too picky for my other relationships. I am too picky when it comes to my interests and too picky about my beliefs. I am too picky as a creator and as a consumer. I have tried to loosen up my standards and ideas, but some things just won’t change.


West Indian 🇬🇾🇬🇩. New Yorker. I write when I feel called to do so. Check out my book, “Radiance Lost” on Amazon and my podcast, "Parrotbeetie".